Happy Labor Day, my sassy laborers! Let’s address some end-of-summer drama.
Dear Sassy, my friends always want to go to expensive places. How do I suggest cheaper alternatives?
Sweetie, it’s time to rein in those high-rollers. Next time they suggest an expensive outing, counter with, “How about we try this new place instead? I hear it’s fabulous and won’t break the bank.” If they insist on splurging, be honest: “I’m watching my budget, so I need to stick to more affordable options.” Suggest a potluck or a game night at home. If they’re true friends, they’ll understand and appreciate your honesty. If they don’t, maybe it’s time to find a new circle that doesn’t require a second mortgage to hang out with. Remember, fabulousness isn’t about the price tag – it’s about the company you keep.
Sassy, my partner keeps talking about their ex. How do I get them to stop?
Darling, it’s time to nip that in the bud. Next time they bring up the ex, say, “I understand your past is part of who you are, but I’d rather focus on our future.” If they continue, be more direct: “Talking about your ex makes me uncomfortable. Can we please move on?” If they still don’t get it, set a firm boundary: “No more ex-talk. Period.” If they’re truly invested in your relationship, they’ll respect your wishes. If not, it’s time to question why they’re so hung up on the past. You deserve someone who’s focused on you, not their history.
Dear Sassy, my partner is a terrible dancer and embarrasses me at parties. What should I do?
Sweetie, bad dancing is a crime, but there’s hope. Sign up for a dance class together and frame it as a fun activity: “Wouldn’t it be great to learn some new moves together?” If they’re resistant, lead by example on the dance floor. Show them some simple steps and encourage them gently. If they’re still a lost cause, embrace it. Own the dance floor with your moves and let them do their thing. Confidence is key – yours, not theirs. And remember, a bad dancer with enthusiasm is better than a wallflower any day. If all else fails, just have a laugh and enjoy the party. Life’s too short to sweat the small stuff.
Enjoy your day off and stay sassy!
Got a tricky situation? A messy love life or a social snafu? Don’t navigate it alone! I’m here to sprinkle some sass and wisdom on your woes. Email me your questions at asksassy@hesaiddallas.com and let’s tackle them together in next week’s column. Remember, no topic is too small or too scandalous for our little chat. I’m all ears and all advice—fire away, darlings!
